Ahhhhh Freedom......

How did I get to the place of loving God, loving who I am, and wanting to be the best me for myself and for my family and friends? I am so grateful for where I am in my life.  I’m excited about what I’m now creating and what I will create in the future. My life isn’t perfect and like most, I experienced serious life challenges. I’ve dealt with divorce, depression, low self-esteem, and lack of confidence. I’ve struggled with toxic relationships, low body image, unhealthy eating, and a slight heart condition.

What caused these challenges?  Relationships that were emotionally abusive, physically abusive, and controlling.  I did not feel that I deserved loved or was worthy of being loved and respected.  I made not-so-great choices that caused heartache, embarrassment, and pain.  Some of those choices caused serious consequences not only for me, but for my family.  I allowed people to take advantage of me because I didn’t feel worthy, didn’t feel important, and didn’t believe I deserved to be loved or respected.  I learned to put on the “everything is good” face while I was listening and helping others. Even though I appeared strong, I was falling apart. I didn’t believe I had a voice, let alone that my voice mattered. I thought that no one wanted to hear my problems or even cared.  I was stuck. 

I began experiencing anxiety that was manifesting both physically and emotionally, I needed to make changes and soon! With God, I had to heal and build myself back up, and I had to admit that I needed help. Through counseling, prayer, family, and good friends, I had the support I needed. Through transformational coaching, I discovered habits that were not serving me well.  I let go of my negative habits, formed new habits and new life strategies that continue to serve me well today. I no longer worry or need approval. I know that I can’t control other people; I can only control my reactions, beliefs, and thoughts. I learned how to forgive them, myself, and let go. There’s so much freedom in forgiveness! Today, I look forward to seeing what I can create that brings joy. My life isn’t perfect, but I’m happy! I continue to strive to be my best and empower others to be their best.

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